Tools for HeartConnexion® Living

Spirituality of Setting Boundaries

Many of us learn to set healthy boundaries by trial and error since we had few models in our family-of-origin. People affected by our new boundaries may not always immediately appreciate the change. Recently.... more

Personal and Spiritual Growth Requires Seeing Through Our Illusions

By definition an illusion does not describe reality. It is a way of "not seeing that avoids ... more

Practice Holy Re-membering

The power of remembering is fascinating. We have incredible capacity to remember - ... more

Accept Challenges as Opportunities for Growth

There is an attractive lie that unnecessarily creates confusion and discouragement. Its forms include - ... more

Choose the Fundamental Source of Your Self-Worth

What is the source of your self-worth - not just in theory but in your everyday experience? Who could say ... more

Where Are You on the Spiritual Journey?

If spiritual growth for a Christian is about becoming more Christ-like then gaining a fundamental ... more

Five Truths About Fear

What are your false-beliefs (tapes) about experiencing fear? One of the most paralyzing may be: “I should ... more

Don't Expect Critics to Applaud Your Growth

Our personal growth does not destroy our internal critic (or, whatever name you give it). That is the critical voice... more

Lift Your Conversations on Purpose

Many of our daily conversations are routine and have little emotional impact. Other exchanges leave us .... more

Don't Just Fret; Pray Then Choose

Aren't you happy that Paul's challenge to replace worry with prayer is not one of the Ten Commandments? .... more

Personal and Spiritual Growth Requires Seeing Through Our Illusions

By definition an illusion does not describe reality. It is a way of "not-seeing" that avoids the reality.... more

Keep Gratitude in Your Life by Keeping Perspective About Life

It is incredibly easy to lose our perspective about life, which, in turn, distorts our point of view about.... more

Bring the "Fear of the Lord" Into Every Life Situation (Part 1)

Just hearing or reading the phrase "fear of the Lord" may take some of us to a negative, defensive place..... more

Bring the "Fear of the Lord" Into Every Life Situation (Part 2)

The scriptures in Part 1 suggested that the “fear of the Lord” is a positive source of strength..... more

Bring the "Fear of the Lord" Into Every Life Situation (Part 3)

If the Garden of Eden story tells us anything,..... more

Use Your “Points of Power” to Clarify Your Vision

Even in the middle of difficult life challenges, we all have.... more